• whenever you will be at your lowest or you’ll need help, most of the people around you will ignore you. like they can’t see you or you don’t matter. your existence can’t be seen even though they see you. because you are no use for them. they can’t gain anything from you. basic nature that humans are selfish no matter how much they talk about kindness. when you are crying you won’t find someone wiping your tears. you will do everything for everyone but when you’ll need someone in your bad times, you are gonna be disappoint so much. you are gonna be hurt so much.
• whatever bad happens in life, trust me no one is coming to save you. literally no one. you will scream, you will cry but you won’t find a single helping hand except your family and one or two close people. people will ignore your screams even though they hear that. nothing is going to change until you help yourself. you stand for yourself. you help yourself. it’s you. only you. was, is and always will be you. people will advise you, give you solutions but they are never gonna ease your problems even though they can sometimes. trust yourself and never leave hand of your shadow. you have no one. you will have to support yourself. in lows, in pain.
• whenever it comes to love, always give only that much of emotions or involve yourself in that relation as much as you get from the other side. never ever lower your standards. never ever beg for anyone’s attention. to see your worth. to see you valuable. you deserve much more. you deserve better. someone who will love you. truly love you and if not you are better alone. than being in pain. being in wrong relation. never compromise just because others are doing. have your own standard. if no one gets that, no one understands that, chose yourself. always your self respect. not other person. you are going to regret that so much for asking someone to see your worth. most important never take any shit or disrespect from anyone. you are not made for that. If you are wrong, accept that. if not leave the place where you are not getting treated right.
• do everything with an open heart. do everything without hurting anyone. as much as you can do. after that don’t even think or listen to what others say about that. at the end they are gonna find something wrong in whatever you do. just don’t feel bad for other reactions. you can’t control that. never can. what they say, how they behave, what they do.. you can not control anything. never take any shit to your heart and feel bad. it’s them not you. you did your best. you did what you could do. be at ease. be at peace. rest. treat yourself gently. and never feel bad that you did not get what you deserve from people. they are never gonna same as you. so don’t even dare to blame yourself for anything if you have not done anything wrong with others.
Nidhi • निधि 