Growing up was hard ✨

Sometimes i think i ever wanted to grow up in Life? Yes we all wanted to grow up and endure this world when we were child. As a child our only desires to be a grown up personality, travel of beautiful places and fulfilment of all desires. Now when i see and compare a child life and an grown up adult life…..why I feel no happiness is there which I expected that time?

 “Are we really happy from this phase?
Are we really smiling behind these smiling faces?
Are we really enduring this world which we wished?
Are we really enjoying this life as we wanted?
Are we really happy from this Life?”

Let’s try to go back in childhood. Yes those happy days when happiness used to be Real and desires used to full of innocence. When someone asked what you want to be in your Life? And we proudly used to Reply “Doctor or Scientist” or whatever you wished. Our expectations from life was more high than limit of sky. As a child everything seem so easy and achievable. Have you all achieved those wishes which you conquered?  Ask yourself.

Remembering more that childhood journey, when a toffee or chocolate was ALL we wanted. And after not getting that we could cry and burst out loud our tears in front of everyone.

Anger or frustration?  Do you all remember what was the things for which we ever got angry or frustrated?  Relationships?  Heartbreak? Job? Career? Looks? Jealousy? Love? Ask yourself.

Our personalities were not DUAL. One for this world and one for yourself. If we were happy……that was REAL. If we were sad……that was for some moment. If we desired anything…..we achieved that. Those sleeps were peaceful. Our heart was pure. We possessed neat and clean intentions for others. Hate was least. Jealousy was invisible. Relationships given joy moments. Are we really same now? Are we holding same heart and person now? Ask yourself.

Lets not forget……Grown up “Us”

Anything that can give us childhood peace and real happiness in this phase? Can we really be satisfy from this Life? What’s guarantee if our one desire is completed we are going to be smile for real? Is there anything ? Ask yourself.

Now when we feel emotional, first thing we do is searching of a corner so that we can go there to cry and burst out our emotions. We fear to lose our image if we cry in front of People. Not our fault……actually. We think we are strong individuals in this big body. Are we really strong from inside? Ask yourself.

This is social media world and internet. In connecting virtual world we almost forgot that we have a REAL WORLD too from which we’ll have to deal no matter what. Sometimes it’s an escape from this world…..sometimes a pleasure for a moment and sometimes addictions.

We have to compete in this Journey if we ever achieve to a position in career. If one is successful in that Journey this society will remember them as WINNER. What about those who left behind in this competitive journey? Tag of a failure personality. Do ever this society want to hear your failure stories? Did anyone come to motivate you or save you just because of real concern? Did anyone show sympathy for you in this hard part? Or they only had expectations from you. Are you having real people in your lives ? Ask yourself.

Marriage….we imagined in our childhood days that a married couple is full of happiness and love. After marriage everything is sorted and life is Set with soul mate or a perfect life partner. Do perfect life partner exist in this world? All married couple are really happy in their marriage? Are we really happy from our Love? Ask yourself.

So many parts in this phase is missing
So many wishes are incomplete
So many struggles are invisible for world
So many judgements
So many comparisons
So many inferiority complexes
So many desires which are only in dairies

We….Grown up “Us” ..just living our lives to leave this world for one day. Managing our stress be get at least some moments of smiles. Sorting out those miscommunications so that we can really be happy and satisfied in this life.

Did we ever want to “GROWN UP” like this? Ask to yourself………!!!!